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I am sitting here in Gina’s hospital room at Seton Northwest Hospital. We came here yesterday because Gina was having some “upper right quadrant” abdominal pain. The pain looked excruciating, luckily the ER was able to fix her up with some meds that eased the pain rather quickly.

They took some blood and ran various tests, all of which confirmed what Gina and I suspected, that her gallbladder was “acting up”. However, the prognosis was not what either of us were expecting. They want to remove that pesky little bladder of gall.

They admitted her at about 10:30 last night to a room in Hospital and got her all settled in. By that point we had been here for just about 6 hours. I waited until we had all of the paperwork taken care of and she fell asleep before heading home to take care of the dogs, shower and pick up some things. (You know, like laptops and iPods, the essentials of any hospital stay in this digital day-and-age.)

We are waiting to speak with the doctor to determine if her surgery will be today or tomorrow. Either way, they will be looking to keep her in the hospital overnight afterward for observation and she is expected to be sore for several days following.

I do not recall ever spending the night in a hospital room. I remember visiting Gina’s Grandpa Parker at Ingham, I remember visiting my Mom when she was taken to Sparrow hospital when Rachel was born (I remember buying a plastic dinosaur and playing cards in the gift shop) and I remember visiting my Great-Grandpa Benner.

While we were in the Emergency Room, I recounted all of the times that I had been to an Emergency Room, all of which I believe were here at Seton Northwest. I think the total was 4, but I kinda feel like it was 5. Notably, none of the visits were for me directly.

Gina is playing on her Mac, listening to music. I am sitting here in the guest chair, which because of the reclining action on this bad-boy doesn’t make it entirely horrible to sleep on.

The hospital has free wifi, which is a necessity in this digital day-and-age.

Well, I need to take care of a couple of work things as to ensure that my absence on Monday (and possibly) Tuesday will not throw off our schedules.

I am pretty sure that most people that read this, I have already call by phone. Needless to say, I will likely call you with an update before posting one here.

Laterz

I hope that everyone is having a Merry X-mas.

I helped the dogs, rabbits and bird make X-mas cards for Gina. The dogs got her a Starbucks gift card and the rabbits and bird got her an iTunes card. Lula wanted to get Gina a new car, but well Lula is a dog and in these tight economic times she just couldn’t get a loan. I mean, one of these days soon Lula’s modeling career will take off and she will be able to get herself the personal chef she has always been wanting.

Gina got me some clothes (which was cool, cuz I picked them out), she also got me CronoTrigger for the DS-Lite, and she got me a really swanky beard trimmer (my last one broke). Gina and I got t-shirts from my in-laws, Gina’s says that “Everyone loves an Italian girl.” Mine says “Italian, by marriage only.”

I also got a micro-copter (which is proving to be challenge to fly, but one I am sure I will master). Gina got a bracelet.

I got Gina an Apple AirportExpress, so that when she travels she will always be able to have wifi at the hotel. I also got her the latest book by the lady that writes the Harry Potter books, JK Rowling, I believe the title is “The Tales of the Beetle Bard”. It is a small book, I think she will likely finish it in a day (if she reads it straight through).

We were going to see “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button” with Jeremy and Nichole. However, it would appear that the movie was TOO popular. For almost evey X-mas for the last 10-15 years I have seen a movie. But both Gina and myself cannot ever remember the theatre being as busy as the Cinemark on 1431 was this afternoon. Jeremy and Nichole got there earlier than us and managed to get tickets, whereas Gina and I didn’t get there in time. I called Jeremy when we got there, to see if they were already in the theatre or if they were in one of the various lines that were outside the theatre (one of which looked like it might have been coming from inside the building.

He said that they were inside already and that it was pretty full. I stood in line to buy tickets and overheard someone say with amazement “It is sold out.” I didn’t catch what movie they were referring to, when I got up to the kiosk myself, I saw the “Sold Out” label on the picture of “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button.”

I feel  bad that we were not able to catch the flick with Jeremy and Nichole. Hopefully, it is a good one. Tomorrow night Jeremy and I are going to see “The Spirit”, I am going to see if John can go tomorrow night. I think I will make sure we are there extra early, which should be easy since Jeremy and I are both taking the day off.

On a side note, it actually turned out to be a good thing that Gina and I didn’t get into the movie. Our “Rival 20 Quart (Electric) Roaster Oven” is amazing, it cooked the turkey to our amazement in about 1.5 hours. I mean it seems impossible to believe, but we reviewed various different websites to verify the necessary cooking time and temperatures (and to see if we could figure out the best place to put the meat temp probe).

The movie lasts almost 3 hours. This would have ultimately have meant that the turkey would have been way overdone.

Gina’s dad had told her earlier today that the roaster would could the turkey quickly, but he didn’t say it was going to cook it that quickly. I mean we had put the probe in about 1 hour in and it was already registering at 161 degrees.

Well, Gina just started cutting the turkey, so it is time to go.

Laterz

My Tickets to the Folds show @ Stubbs - 2008

The show was a while ago, but I have been tied up with work and haven’t felt like blogging for the last few weeks (or months really).  Ben Folds is one of my favorite artists, it has been at least 6 years since I saw him live, the last time was at La Zona Rosa.

This time it was at Stubb’s BBQ, a nice sized, outdoor venue. It was a pretty decent night for a show, not too cold and not too hot (yes, I said hot, in Texas during the summer it can still be 80+ degrees outside at night.)

I had hoped that Gina could have come along, but she isn’t a big fan of the Folds and she happened to be in Manila at the time. Jeremy is also no lover of the Folds, neither is anyone else in the Jaduka dev crew. And at a price tag of $50 ($41.50 for the ticket and $8.50 for delivery) you have to really like the Folds to pay that kind of price.

I was a little late arriving to the show, but I didn’t miss the start of the opening act or anything. I managed to grab a beer (or two), some food and found a nice perch behind the light boards and sound deck area.

To my pleasant surprise the opening act, Missy Higgins was good. I really liked their set and have thought about getting some of their music. To me her sound was a little reminiscient of Sheryl Crow’s early stuff. I have to be honest right now, I don’t remember too much about her music, except that I didn’t hate it and it reminded me a wee bit of early Sheryl Crow.

I kept a mental note about not hating the opening act, because of the fact that the opening act for Flogging Molly, completely SUCKED. I mean was absolutely HORRIBLE, they were this bad like 70s coverish band, bad outfits, bad songs, bad performance.

Back to the Folds.

After Missy Higgins’ set was done, I took the opportunity to grab another beer (or two), unfortunately some folks took the opportunity to steal my perch. I mean, sure they managed to use the space slightly more effectively than I was, being two folks sort of crammed themselves into the same area that I had been occupying.

Downside to all of this was the fact that I had a nice setup, there is this railing running behind the light board area, fairly sturdy, sturdy enough for me to lean on it with comfort, like the old man that I am (becoming).

I spent the rest of the evening just to the left of the lightboard by about 6 feet or so.

The concert was great, everything that I could have asked for. Ben played some of his really old stuff (like “Underground”), some of his more recently old stuff (like “Zak and Sara”) and pretty much everything off his new album (like “Effington”).

I had purchased Ben’s new album shortly after it came out on Sept 30th. By the time of the concert I had listened to the album more often that I would choose to admit. The benefit of this was that I knew the words to the songs, which meant I got to do the thing I love the most when drinking and listening to music, sing along (in my own tone-deaf sort of way). I tried not to sing too loudly, as not to ruin anyone elses enjoyment of the concert. All in all, I am glad that neither Gina nor Jeremy was there to witness me singing along.

After two encores, Ben Folds and his band left the stage and it was time to go home. I hit the back alley of porta-potties to return my ‘rented’ beer and then worked my way out of the “exit” lines. Feeling a bit peckish, I went off in search of pizza. There are several pizza by the slice places down on 6th street, Hoek’s Death Metal Pizza is where I ended up.

hoeks off flickr

http://www.flickr.com/photos/nicksherman/3049704958/sizes/s/

I had a slice of pepperoni (which came fresh out of the oven) and then headed home.

I had a fun time at the concert and it made me want to go and see another concert (not necessarily for at a $50 ticket price).

My Flickr -- Miller High Life

The one thing that I did find interesting was that whilst sipping on my Miller High Life, was the economy. I am guessing that there were at least 2,000 people there (best I could find on the net is that Stubb’s holds 1,800). The sh#t had hit the fan about that same time as far as the economy goes, everyone in the nation was (and most still are) worried about the economy.

The future of the presidential election was still uncertain (as no voting had yet occurred), Obama was not yet the President Elect.

And yet, here at Stubb’s BBQ there were 2,000 people enjoying themselves. I mean, most likely all the tickets were purchased earlier in the year. But you figure folks had to take taxis or pay for parking, let’s assume that folks carpooled and on avg at least 2 people per car. Let us also assume that 2/3 drove in their own cars (or carpooled). Then let’s assume that one half of the 1/3 remaining took a taxi.

So that breaks down to:

1,333 folks rode in cars, at least 2 folks per car, parked the car for $7, equals $4,666 parking.

667 folks came by other means, figure 333 took taxis, figure $20 per person taking a taxi (some of them will have doubled up), $6,666 for taxis (round-trip).

I figure that at least half the folks there ate some sort of food while there, if memory serves the avg price of something to eat was like $5. So, another $5,000 spent.

Then comes the real money maker, the booze. I really can’t remember how much the prices were, but beer I think was like $3 for a Lone Star or Miller High Life and then slowly working their way up in price. Bottled water was like $4 or $5. Mixed drinks started at I think $7 dollars.

Let’s assume half of the folks had two beers, assuming an avg price of $4 per beer, so $4,000. Then let’s assume that 3/4 of the folks had a bottle of water, assuming that water was $4, that makes $6,000. Then let’s assume that 1/3 of everyone there had 2 mixed drinks, avg price $7, that makes $4,662.

( I mean I am probably going a bit light on the booze calcs, I mean there were A LOT of people drinking.)

So the totals in terms of the general economy.

Tickets: $100,000

Parking: $4,666

Taxis:    $6,666

Beer:      $4,000

Water:    $6,000

Mixed:   $4,662

Food:     $5,000

Total:     $130,994

This doesn’t even begin to calculate the price of the t-shirts or what not purchased at the show, I won’t speculate there, as I didn’t pay attention to the prices enough to do so.

Including my ticket, parking, beer, food a the show and slice of pizza at Hoek’s Death Metal Pizza I think I spent about $105 or 0.08% of the estimated total that I think was spent that night because of the concert. Mind you, I didn’t speculate on other folks going out to other bars (or pizza joints) before or after the show let out, I am sure that folks did that as well.

Like I said, whilst sipping my Miller High Life, I thought briefly on the economy and how the folks down here in Austin at the Ben Fold Concert didn’t let themselves get depressed. How they spent money without immediate fears of home foreclosures or inflation (or deflation) or the rising price of gas (which has now dropped to prices that are likely lower or on par with before Bush took office, the first time).

Maybe they spent the money as to fully enjoy the evening and they would worry about such things the next day. Maybe they enjoyed the evening (and possibly the following day) without worry because we down here in Austin are still somewhat isolated from the major economic sh%t storm that has gripped the nation.

I know that I enjoyed listening to the music and drinking a beer without worrying about the economy or other such topics that night.

Well, I need to get to bed.

Laterz

PS. I am starting to get back into a routine and feel the need to write more lately, so that likely means more regular blog posts.

Or at least she thinks she is.

I cannot think of living without a dog in my life, particularly a dog like Emma Lou (aka Lula). She actually brings a smile to my face, just by sitting on my lap. Even when she is being naughty I still love her, though there are times when I am really tired that I wish she would just go back to bed rather than need to go and get a drink at 4am or scratch at the door to go outside.

Before Gina moved in I didn’t have any animals. Now we have ‘The Farm’, four dogs, two rabbits and the bird. For all of those that knew Peanut, she is sorely missed, her raspy little bark was always a sign that the hour was late.

Now back to Lula. Her naughtiness is almost legendary. Like the time she ate an entire baguette. We had bought a baguette at the farmer’s market, and didn’t put it away properly. It was just barely dangling off the edge of the table. Apparently, the baguette was hanging off the edge just enough for Lula to snag it.

Lula had run the baguette through the dog door, which honestly I wish I could have seen her negotiate the long loaf of bread through the dog door. I wonder if she smacked it at least once into the sides with a resounding “thud” or if she was smart enough to drag it length wise through the door on the first try.

Gina and I had not seen Lula in a little while, which is usually the ultimate sign of naughtiness. And when there is naughtiness afoot, one of us immediately checks the backyard. And there it was, a half-eaten baguette (to give her proper credit, she ate somewhere between 1/3 and 1/2). After a couple of minutes of searching, we found Lula, all extra fat and happy. She had plumped up on all that bread.

Then there was the time that she ate that bar of soap from Lush. I was sitting on the couch, and Lula came running up to me. She landed in my lap like she had done a thousand times before, but there was something different. A smell in the air, it smelled sweet and flowery. I asked Gina if she had given her a bath recently, because the flowery smell sort of reminded me of this after bath spray Gina uses on the dogs.

Then I asked Gina if she had mopped the floor, as by that point I had figured out it was a lavender smell. And the last few times Gina mopped she had used a lavender and vinegar solution. Gina answered no on both counts.

That meant that Lula smelled like lavender for some UNKNOWN reason. I started to sniff Lula to determine exactly where the Lavender smell was coming from, it was coming from her mouth. Lula had eaten something that smelled like Lavender!!!

That jogged my memory that I had recently brought home for Gina some soaps from the Lush store in Dallas, one of which was a Shea butter soap scented with lavender. I immediately went into the bedroom to look for the Lush bag and found it sitting on the bed, relatively empty, with no signs of an empty soap bag around.

“To the backyard!!!” (or something very close to that is what I said)

Sure enough, there sat on the ground a plastic bag with little doggie teeth holes in it and the Lush logo stamped on the side. Lula had eaten through the bag and ingested a whole bar of the lavender scented soap.

Gina immediately called poison control and was instructed to take Lula to the Emergency Vet, as there was a fear that Lula could end up with a blockage in her digestive system or worse choke on the soap while attempting to return it the same way it went in.

On the way to the Emergency Vet Lula returned the soap to Gina, all over the front seat of the Vibe (which was still relatively new at the time). Lula didn’t seem any worse for wear after the whole soap episode.

But enough about Lula’s naughtiness. This is supposed to talk about how she like little people.

One thing I would say is, she eats off a fork or spoon rather well.

When she is leaning over the arm of the couch, with her front paws all extended and standing on her hind legs, I can just imagine what she might look like if she was wearing some Osh-Kosh and had pigtails. She likes to be carried over my shoulder (that is when she likes to be carried).

And there are times I think that if she had thumbs she could sit on the couch and work the TV remote if she really wanted to.

She hasn’t done it in a while (I think because I have been going to bed at a more reasonable time these days), but she would sit at the foot of my chair in the office here and grumble when it was time to go to bed. Now curly does a similar thing, but Lula took it a step further, she would stand up and then begin to paw me to signal me it that it is time to go to bed.

Another aspect about her being little people is that she is too smart for her own good. While Curly and Buddy are very good at coming in when they are called, Lula merely looks at you and goes back to what every she was doing. The best is when she looks at you and turns the other way.

Also, she knows when she has done something wrong, yet still does it. That to me makes her more like people than not.

Regardless, I could never think of life without dogs now, especially without my little Lula.

Well, dinner is done.

Laterz

This is day two of the funk.

I feel a little bit better than yesterday, but yet just as bad. My nose isn’t running like it was yesterday, but I am way more tired and I have a cough now.

Well, I need to lay down for a nap.

Laterz.

We are going to stop in Nashville for the night. If we can get on the road by 8am then we should be able to get to Nashville by 10pm.

All for now.

Laterz

I set my alarm for 0140, giving me time to crawl out of bed and over to the computer with plenty of time to spare.

Low and behold,  Jeremy messages me.

He is still awake.

Course he is on vacation, therefore he can stay up at long as he wants.

Ok, the maintenance is about to start.

Laterz

I have a maintenance in just under 3 hours.

I had one last Friday morning at 0200 as well.

I opted to handle these maintenances rather than make my staff deal with it. To note, Jeremy is on vacation this week and would be my regular choice for handling this maintenance.

However, since I am going to be on vacation soon I figured handling a little bit of early morning “fun” is the least I can do for the fact that they are going to have to handle my duties while I am out.

I have a new guy starting tomorrow, he is going to be in the office at 0900. So that means I will need to get to bed in a more reasonable timeframe than last week.

Anyway, I best get to bed, especially given that I was up late last night finishing up a script for Gina’s customer.

Night

A few years back an exec who was advising me on how to become an exec and leader myself told me that I should look to TV and movies for examples of leadership.

When I first heard this, I was a little shocked, but after a few minutes I thought of a few examples of leadership that I have seen in TV and movies. The immediate ones I thought about was the scene in Boiler Room where Ben Affleck’s character was telling everyone who was starting what was expected of them and what they could expect in very blunt terms.

Not necessarily what you would want on a regular basis, but the one scene has made me think about trying to be more blunt with the guys I manage. The next example I thought about was mentoring that Dennis Quad showed Topher Grace in the movie In Good Company.

The whole movie In Good Company, I think is a good example of how a leader should try to not only lead the team but protect them and assist when he can. It also showed a good example of the how expectations can vary by managers from different generations, albeit in a very stereotypical way.

But the one that I think back to time and time again, is Major Winters from the HBO mini-series Band of Brothers. I have long had an affinity for WWII movies and shows. But Major Winters was a real person, and while I am sure HBO took liberties with some of the dramatic portrayal of the material, I really do believe that the people from that era deserve the designation The Greatest Generation.

You get to watch Major Winters (who started out as a Lieutenant in the mini-series) win respect of the men he led in Easy company. There is a point in the mini-series where they are in Bastogne and (I believe he was a Captain at the time) Major Winters wants so badly to go back out and lead the men out of harms way as their commanding officer was not doing what he was supposed to. That feeling that he needs to jump back into the fray, that he still cared about the safety of the men in that company, is impressive. I mean he had been promoted to Battalion Command by that point and was expected to organize the strategy for the attacks, not lead them.

The other thing that I recognize and that is talked about here and there is that Easy company would not have been as tightly nit (or physically ready) for the perils that they went through if not for Captain Sobel. Sobel galvanized Easy company, unfortunately he became the common foe. And if the mini-series accurately portrays Sobel, then the fact that he was removed as the commanding officer of Easy company was for the good.

But in the contrast you get to see what a bad leader is, Sobel who does force Easy company to become physicall fit, but does not think he needs the men’s respect. “You salute the rank, not the man.” is one of the lines you hear later on in the series after Winters is promoted above Sobel.

The other line I remember is “If you were in my platoon, I would tell you that you are a rifleman first and a radio man second.” This concept is one that I try to keep in my head, that within whatever department you are in or leading, the members (including the manager) should be able to perform the basic operations of the department. This can be hard to achieve, but it is something that I think is worth shooting for.

I would not be where I am Today if not for the fact that I am capable of doing a little bit of everything. Specialization is good, is NEEDED in many careers, but without a strong understanding of the basics, then you may find yourself “Over Qualified” or find that you have to rely on someone else to be able to perform your job duties (which can upset your timetables).

Another reason for bringing up the “rifleman” quote is because, in my current career role I don’t do a lot of programming anymore. To note I never had the designation of a programmer or developer, but I dabbled. But the fact that I dabbled I truly believe makes me a better manager. Same goes for managing the Sales Engineer (currently only one guy, so hard to say Sales Engineer Dept).  Having significant experience doing sales engineering I believe makes me a better manager of that process.

I have the Band of Brothers DVDs playing while I straighten up my office.

Gina (The Best Wife Ever) was kind enough to get me the DVDs a couple of years ago for X-mas, as I would usually watch it when it was on HBO or A&E.

Oh, last thing about Currahee, I would like to go there someday and run it, 3 miles up and 3 miles down. Mostly for nostalgia of watching the mini-series so much that I could run the same route that Easy Company did over 60 years ago. I have no idea how I would go about arranging that, but it is something that I would like to do in say the next 2 or 3 years.

I better get back to filing away stuff on my desk.

Laterz

Twitter’s problems have even hit the world of InkTank, which is one of the web comics that I read. The artist who draws InkTank used to have a GREAT comic called Angst Technology, I learned a lot and have always wished that we had some IT ninjas (or that I was fast enough to snatch the pebble from master’s hand).

I have to say that the WordPress interface here is pretty boss, it is a bit more intuitive than the Serendipity interface (notably I am running an OLD version of Serendipity, but still I think WordPress wins).

I am likely going to have to try to roll my own header image rotater, which honestly I think will be a fun little project to work on. I tried out a couple of different ones last night, none of which gave me the effect I was looking for.

I have setup the main page of my new domain, Ben.Dominguez-Benner.com, with some temporary links to stuff. I am still not entirely sure what all I am going to post and do with this new domain, but it is going to be about me. I have found that even in the digital world I tend to keep to myself.

My blogging lately has been very sparse, I need to increase that, but I also want to share my thoughts on various topics that aren’t necessarily about what is going on in my life. Believe it or not, I can be quite opinionated, particularly about technology.

I had a great conversation the other night with a buddy of mine in Dallas, Bobby Goodwin, about the .NET and how it has some advantages over PHP.

Let it be known that I have always stated that .NET is a good structure for the Enterprise, for an environment where the users might be accepting of some downtime (do to an upgrade, or a mishap). However, from what Bobby has told me, .NET might just be ready for some real action on the Web.

Those are probably fighting words for the folks out there who the annoited accolytes of .NET. However, the one thing that I have seen time and time again with commercial and even OpenSource frameworks (or even blog packages), there is a certain crossroads when it comes to handling a web app in a multi-server environment.

And as Bobby stated that night, .NET can do all the stuff PHP can (and more apparently). My statements about .NET possibly not handling a multi-server environment (ie the same app running on multiple servers at the same time) is not about the programming language. I made the comment that night that the operating system would be a factor.

I think I have to retract that, because with some proper load balancing schemes (DNS load-balancing appliances, or a DNS service that does the load-balancing), then all the load balancing is done in an agnostic fashion to the operating system.

I think it is a bit of a culture issue, and honestly I am not sure culture is the correct word.

With enough money you can build out as redundant a system using Windows and .NET as you could using Linux and PHP. I think for me the idea of being able to buy a server, load a FREE OS, FREE Database, Free Web Server make me think about the architecture of a system (say like a big micro-blogging service that has been having problems) as merely a need to buy a few more boxes that can handle the particular part of the overall system that is innundated with requests.

In part because the cost of the hardware is very negliable these days. I mean for a small indie project $1,500 for a server is a killer (which really means they should be using $300-$500 cheapo servers vs say DELL), but to a company $1,500 for a server is ultra-cheap. But cheap is relative, back in the early days of my career the most stable UNIX like servers were RISC based, which meant IBM, SUN, and HP were your best bet.

They were also your most expensive as well, costing back in ’98 easily $100k for something that could handle some load and in 2000 it was more along the lines of $30k-$40k. With cheaper and more powerful x86 servers out there and a stable (FREE) Linux OS you could begin to get POWERFUL servers for about $2000-$10,000 between like 2004-2007.

Today $10k will buy you a VERY POWERFUL server.

However, when you start tacking on Lincensing costs for the Operating System and a Database engine, the nature of your architecture usually changes, I belive you typically look for ways to grow your architecture vertically vs horizontally (ie buying BIGGER boxes instead of MORE boxes).

I have gotten way off topic here and should probably look to follow up this post with seperate posts on these topics.

In closing though, I find it funny that the issues that Twitter has had made it’s way in the InkTank universe, I also thought it was good timing considering that I had just made a post that made fun of the Twitter API stability issues.

Back to the grind.

Laterz